At 3:00 a.m., when we (I) realized that we accidentally closed The Baby in one of the children's rooms, I asked my loving husband to remind me, sweetly, the next time I wanted a second margarita, that one is all this little wuss can tolerate during the time it takes to eat dinner. At 3:15, I was wide awake with a queazy stomach. OMG! It was just 1 1/2 margaritas! At 3:30 I knew I was awake for the night. At 3:45 my mind was whirling about the "party season" for the Bridal Couple and the Bride -to Be's parents visiting. At 4:00 I started obsessing, again, about who I wasn't able to invite to the wedding. At 4:15 I just got up. I know there is nothing I can do about my precious friends who I can't invite. I have analyzed, strategized, rationalized and organized lists and lists. I have begged the No. 1 son to consider giving me more invitations. Even though I can't say that I am happy with the final list, (that would be only if I could invite all I wanted to invite), I can say that after thinking it through many times, I am resigned to the list and feel it is the best I can do for this wedding and this child. Everyone who I want to include but can't, really does understand, so I need to just move on.......for good!
Then I started obsessing about how I could get everyone from LaGrange to the Rehearsal Dinner. I don't think I can. We'll see if any family on the Bride's side or any of the Couple's friends are not able to attend and then I will revisit that idea. This afternoon I worked a little on the party favors for the Rehearsal Dinner. I decided I might have more room in the car if I don't totally put them together. But if I do things, like put the little items it their decorative bags and tie the ribbons, that will save some time when i get there. I will post pictures of them after the dinner. Don't want to spoil the surprise---not that they will be up to the bridal magazine standards---but I do think they will be cute.
I didn't write about my little meltdown the other day. Well, let me clarify. I did write about it, posted it, and then deleted it: The invitations to the Rehearsal Dinner came and I was so excited. I opened the box, loved them, was excited that that they fit the No. 1 son so well, and then realized that I had forgotten to have the time of the dinner printed!!! When my loving husband walked in the door from work he could tell in an instant that something was wrong. I have only 1 thing to be responsible for; I have been looking forward to planning it since he was born; and I forgot to put the time on the invitation!!!!! ARGH!!!!! After running through all the ways I could add it before mailing, my sweet husband suggested that I get in touch with the printer. Duh. I did, and my contact was upset that she didn't notice it either. So they are being reprinted at a very reasonable cost---very worth it.
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