I guess I have been living in a fantasy world for the last 24 years. I started planning her wedding almost the day I found out she was a "she". (Not really, but you know what i mean.) She wore pink, purple and white almost exclusively when she was a baby and toddler--after 2 boys I wanted a change from blue, green and yellow.
Well, last night it finally sunk in, she is not a girly girl. She doesn't want pearls. She wants mason jars.
My dream wedding for her is not her dream.
Luckily we have plenty of time---she isn't dating right now. But I see a lot of compromising in my future. I just hope she does, too.
